Start Enjoying Your Relationships – Overcome Your Fear of Abandonment
Fear of Abandonment can actually drive away people who care about you.
The insecurity that is created by the fear of abandonment diminishes enjoyment and will squeeze out the health of your relationships.
Usually there is a very clear cause of the fear of abandonment. Perhaps you have had many bad relationships where people have decided to walk away from you. Also, you may have gotten yourself into the habit of becoming involved with people who are unavailable or more likely to leave you. Causing you to feel abandoned. There could also be issues that may come from feeling abandoned emotionally or physically when you were a child.
A Self-Fulfilling Prophecy – The Fear of Abandonment
We human beings all need people. Most of us during our life feel abandoned at some point. However, for those people where the fear of abandonment is a very major issue then the fear will start to control them as well as their relationships. Nobody wants to have their life controlled by the fear of abandonment!
If your greatest worry is you’re going to be ‘ abandoned again ‘ or people will ‘ always ‘ let you down, then the probability is that you will live your life defensively. In other words you will be constantly looking for signs that you are about to be abandoned. When this happens, it can lead to an over controlling behavior in your relationships. This in turn will leave you more likely to be abandoned! This is where it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Clinginess and The Fear of Abandonment
The Fear of Abandonment may have started making you over clingy, acting desperate, and looking for intimacy far too quickly in relationships and friendships.
When people are overwhelmed by the fear of abandonment, they may start to feel that any ‘ wrong word ‘ they say might cause a friendship or an intimate relationship to crash. People that suffer from the fear of abandonment may always feel like they’re walking on egg shells all of the time. They are always prepared to put up with bad treatment because they don’t want to take any risk of being abandoned. Due to their own oversensitivity they actually become emotionally blackmailed!
Relationships need to be relaxed. We need to be able to speak our minds without fearing being abandoned at any moment.
The Unconscious Reasons That Are Responsible for the Fear of Abandonment
When you are young and felt abandoned then your unconscious mind is probably looking for any miniscule sign that it may happen all over again. This may be happening right now even if things are even secure! Your unconscious mind may be training you to be matching your past reality with current reality without you even knowing about it.
The Overcome Fear Of Abandonment Hypnosis MP3 Download is a powerful audio hypnosis session that uses positive affirmations and strong suggestions in order to retrain the way your unconscious mind thinks. Just imagine how good it’s going to feel when you can stop desperately needing a relationship and simply wanting a relationship!